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One of the biggest questions anyone faces when they lose weight or make a major life change is, “Now what?”

With my new book, Finding It, I’m doing my very best to answer that question for myself. My son Wolfie is growing up and falling in love, and let’s face it, getting your sex talk from Eddie Van Halen wasn’t recommended in any of the parenting books I read.

As my relationship with my boyfriend Tom has deepens, we face new challenges in blending our families. Being with him and learning about his faith, I’ve realized that I crave a deeper sense of spirituality. I have experienced days of inner peace and connectedness with a larger spirit – twice. Why not more often? What I’ve learned is God wants you to enjoy desserts – even when you’re on a diet.

Yes, dieting fixes one problem, but to maintain that weight loss, you have to work on everything else. Finding It is my version of “everything else!” My publisher Free Press has put together a busy schedule of signings and appearances for me. Please come out and see me!

My very best to you ~ Val.

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#18 Kath B 2011-08-20 11:35

Thank you for writing this book. I read Losing It as well.

I have gone thru similar struggles, including current relationship with sig other with possible alcoholism. I can relate to so much that i have read, different yet the same.

You hit the nail on the head on page 133 of 'Finding It' in one sentence. "At their core are simple values that i admire, like honesty, trust, hard work, and a sense... ..., of busting your ass to get the most out of life". This is what i need for peace in my life & you gave me the words to describe it.

Also your text from Corinthians 13:4-7, hit home. This is exactly what i need in my relationship that is largely missing. Maybe your book is my 'sign'. Who would've thought a book written by a celebrity would give me answers after all the self-help books I've read.

Thank you for sharing yourself. I am sure you have no idea how much of a positive impact you have had on others' lives by sharing.
~K

#17 Ellen Smith 2011-08-15 11:48

I am so glad I found, "Finding It". It was a great book; wonderful inspiration and motivator. Your speak of maintenance really hit me. I got into my best shape in time for 4th of July last year and didn't maintain it. I too got there and said, "now what"? The answer now is back to the drawing board. I stopped maintaining and have to start over. I turn 39 this week and am using your two books to aide in my motivation to get back to my goals and be in the best shape (again) by 40. A year to stay motivated. Thank you for being the inspiration you are. Blessings to you and your family!

P.S. Can you tell me what if there is a significance and meaning to the squiggly symbol you have at the begining of each of your chapters?

Thank you again and keep finding it!

#16 Adrian 2011-04-04 23:56

Hi valerie I'm 13 years old and I'm a big fan. You are my role model.You have inspired me, make me want believe in myself, watch what I eat, and clear my stress( which by thhe way is hard to do), to drink alot of water, and to walk about 10,00 steps or more. Valerie you are my role model. you help be a better me and help me feel better, also you have help me want to come out of my shell, and have help me in my deepression D. Thank you soo much.!!! you and tom are the perfect and prettiest couple ever. I wish I can have a guy like that. You wedding look so pretty and the funny things on november around my b-day me and my friends were playing a game called M.A.S.H. and one the game that is how I want my wedding When I find the person that I cant live with out like you and Tom. in the mild of the book and I wish that it ever ends because It is so good. Are you going to write another book.

#15 Denise Hickey 2011-02-22 18:38

Hi Valerie,

I have been a fan of yours since "One Day at a Time." I love your new show, "Hot in Cleveland." You look great! While living in NYC in the 80s, I wrote a novel about my life there. I always thought that if my book became a movie that you could play me! Please check out my regular blog and my book blog sometime! Do you have any suggestions? For more info, go to: http://dancingdeniseshorelineswing.blogspot.com and http://NovelNewYorkCity1987.blogspot.com

Wish you well!

Denise

#14 nancy ann schlejen 2011-01-19 18:59

Hi valerie!

I have been a fan of your since one day at a time. I found both your books such an inspiration. I myself have struggled with weight issues. But because of you I have been on my ww diet now. I have lost 5.2 pounds already. My goal is to lose another 40. Thank you for your courage and total honesty.

#13 MKateQuinn 2010-09-06 17:00

Hi Valerie,
I am inspired by your book and by you! My name is M. Kate Quinn and my debut novel, "Summer Iris," is a romantic comedy with a 50-year-old heroine that goes to the NJ shore for a summer. I tell everyone that if Lifetime ever does the movie I want Valerie Bertinelli to play Iris. I'd love to send you the book if you'll provide the info.
Feel free to check out me and my work.
Thanks so much!
MK
"It's never too late for the love of a lifetime."

#12 Erin 2010-09-03 23:25

Both of your books have touched me. I know we have to find strength from within, however reading your books gives me that extra push to do better! You are warm, funny, pretty, and a wonderful inspiration! My husband noticed I was jogging more and I even ate half of what was on my plate when we went out to dinner the other evening! I was proud of myself! Thanks for being so open and honest about your struggles, especially the weight/working out stories! It takes me forever to lose weight, but I'm not going to give up. I will keep going even though it's a slow process. Rrrrg!

Knowing you lost 40lbs before you had to do that crazy 3000 calorie burn twice daily workout for your bikini ad, gives one hope! (You looked great even before the bikini shot.) Funny how we see ourselves. You deserve to be happy! We all deserve to be happy! Thanks again and congrats on running the marathon! Wow!!! Good or you!

Congrats on your engagement too! Cheers! (With a low cal drink!

#11 Donna Prezant 2010-08-24 20:33

Hi Valerie,

I've been a fan since One Day At A Time. I, too, am 50 (will be 51 next month). I've read "Losing It" and am more than halfway through "Finding It," and I'm loving it--thoroughly enjoying your honesty, candor, and sense of humor. You are truly inspiring and very refreshing, too. And, my husband and I just love Hot In Cleveland! Also want to tell you that Tom sounds like a wonderful person; you are blessed. And, I saw Van Halen back in October, 2007 when they were at Mohegan Sun in Uncasville, CT. They rocked the house! I've always loved VH and please tell Wolfie that he was fabulous. It was great to see him play with Ed and the band--it was the best VH concert ever! Best wishes for your continued success and happiness--you deserve it!

Best regards,

Donna P.

#10 Roxanne 2010-07-26 17:19

I just finished your first book, and I didn't even know you had a 2nd. So, I was glad to find your website. Thanks for allowing us to connect with you. How you were so detailed about your past amazed me - just to see you dive back into those moments in your life with such description was amazing. Thank you for your candor and honesty. I am fast approaching size 12s if I don't change my approach to my relationship with food. Never realized how my relationship with food had more to do with my own personal relationship with self and past relationships. Thank you for opening my eyes. I can't wait to read Finding it!

#9 Melinda Carris 2010-06-12 01:41

Please delete previous comments - and name reference. Thank you.

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